‏الطلاق : Hadeeth No:3503 'A'isha (Allaah be pleased with her) reported: Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) gave us the option (to get divorce) and we chose him and he did not count it a divorce....

‏الطلاق : Hadeeth No:3552 Umm 'Atiyya ('Allaah be pleased with her) said: We were forbidden to observe mourning for the dead beyond three days except in the case of husband (where it is permissible) for four months and ten days, and (that during this period) we should neither use collyrium nor touch perfume, nor wear dyed cl...